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Her Mother-In-Law’s Wedding Antics Nearly Destroy Her Marriage, So She Crafts a Strategy to Remove Her For Good.

In a tumultuous wedding experience, the Original Poster’s (OP) mother-in-law (MIL) wreaks havoc with her disruptive behavior, leaving lasting consequences on the couple’s relationship.

The Serene Beginning

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The OP and her husband met in graduate school and formed an instant connection. They dated for six years, and the mother-in-law (MIL) was never an issue. Both families visited each other occasionally, with no red flags.

The Engagement Effect

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Once engaged, the mother-in-law’s behavior changed dramatically, becoming manipulative and needy. The MIL’s side of the family caused problems due to the couple’s decision not to invite children to the wedding. The MIL confronted OP about this, attempting to coerce her into allowing the children to attend.

The Child-Free Compromise

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The OP and her husband offered to pay for a babysitter so the parents could attend the wedding. This offer was rejected, leading some family members to decline the invitation. The issue caused significant drama leading up to the wedding.

Inclusion Attempts

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The OP tried to include her mother-in-law in the wedding preparations, sending updates and pictures. A week before the wedding, OP sent her a bouquet of white flowers as a gesture of goodwill. Despite these efforts, tension remained high.

The White Protest

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At the welcome drinks event, the mother-in-law’s side of the family arrived wearing white in protest of the no-children policy. OP’s friends from graduate school pointed this out, leaving her feeling humiliated and upset.

The Big Day Begins

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On the wedding day, OP and her husband prepared separately with their families and friends. The ceremony started smoothly, and OP walked down the aisle excitedly. The couple honored their deceased grandparents during the ceremony.

The Altar Interruption

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OP’s mother-in-law interrupted the ceremony to complain about an unmentioned deceased aunt. Her husband told her to sit down, but the damage was done, and some guests thought she was objecting to the marriage. OP described the incident as “mortifying.”

The Suspicion of Intoxication

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The OP’s husband suspected that his mother was mixing alcohol with medications during the wedding, although she denied it. The MIL’s erratic behavior continued throughout the event, causing tension and embarrassment.

The First Dance Disruption

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During OP’s first dance with her father, the mother-in-law got up, turned her back, and walked around her family’s tables. She was the only person not paying attention, drawing negative attention to herself.

The Mother-Son Dance Accusation

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Before the mother-son dance, the mother-in-law accused her son of lying about the song selection. He had chosen the song she requested, but she claimed he had changed the song. He confronted her during their dance, saying, “Mom, why are you ruining my wedding?”

Editing Out the Drama

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The couple had to edit the mother-in-law’s behavior from their wedding video to preserve the happy memories. Her actions left a lasting impact on their special day, tainting the memories of their celebration.

The Lingering Effects

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The mother-in-law’s behavior continued to negatively impact the couple after the wedding. OP felt concerned about the effects on her relationship with her husband and sought advice from others in similar situations.

The Search for Resolution

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OP wondered if there was a way to move past the mother-in-law’s behavior at the wedding. The continued strain on their relationship made it difficult for OP to reconcile with her mother-in-law’s actions.

A Plea for Help

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The OP asked for kindness but planned on implementing a “no contact” period with her MIL. The OP and her husband are not in agreement that cutting off the MIL is the best course of action.

What Should the Woman Do?

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The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter. Here are some of their responses…

Forum Responded

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One responder wrote: “I guess the biggest question is what is your husband prepared to do about his mother? If he tries to sweep this under the rug, you have more issues than just your MIL. If it were me, I would have absolutely nothing to do with her until she recognizes and genuinely apologizes.”

Another reader wrote: “The longer your husband tries to keep “middle ground,” the more she will see she can get away with.”

A different person states, “Time to have a discussion with your husband. He needs to back you up and stop letting her get away with this kind of behavior. Start going low contact now. Every time she does something ridiculous put her in a time-out.”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

This story is inspired by this thread.

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Alexander Veros

Alex is a writer for Top Dollar Investor, focusing on lifestyle, travel, and business stories. Alex has started several online businesses and is a blogger who loves providing quality content to help others. He is passionate about affiliate marketing, finance, and cryptocurrency.

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