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She Arrived at Her In-Laws For a Family Weekend, Only to Find Them Sick and Contagious and Trying to Pretend Nothing Was a Problem.

When the Original Poster (OP) and their family visit the in-laws for a holiday, tensions escalate as they discover the in-laws are knowingly sick and potentially contagious. As the family falls ill, OP must confront their mother-in-law (MIL) about her reckless actions, leading to an uncertain future for their relationship.

The Reluctant Visit

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OP and their family decide to visit their in-laws for the holiday, despite their challenging work schedule as an OB/GYN resident doctor. They make the 4-hour drive and plan to stay only one night. The tension between OP and their mother-in-law (MIL) is evident from the start.

The Missing Father-in-Law

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Upon arrival, OP’s father-in-law (FIL) was nowhere to be found. The kids greet their mother-in-law, and the OP’s wife inquires about FIL’s whereabouts. The MIL reveals that both she and FIL have been unwell with vomiting and stomach issues.

The Office Outbreak

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When asked if they had eaten something bad, the mother-in-law replies, “No. Everyone has been sick at the office!” The OP is furious, as the mother-in-law has knowingly exposed them to illness.

The Confrontation

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OP exclaims, “How could you do this? How could you knowingly expose us to something like that? And you know I work with newborns and pregnant women!” The mother-in-law admits that if she had told them, they wouldn’t have visited.

The Dismissive Response

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The OP’s wife expresses concern for their children’s health. The mother-in-law brushes off the worry with, “They’ll be fine!” The family is left feeling frustrated and betrayed.

Holiday Nightmare

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As predicted, the OP’s family becomes sick the next day during the holiday and spends the morning vomiting. OP also falls ill, unable to enjoy the holiday, and forced to let his work partner cover a scheduled c-section the following day.

The Ruined Holiday

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The family’s holiday is ruined, and they are unable to enjoy any festivities due to illness. OP’s anger towards their in-laws intensifies, as their actions have directly impacted the entire family.

The Lingering Anger

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The OP struggles with their fury towards the in-laws. The MIL’s selfish actions have left lasting consequences, with the potential to affect OP’s patients as well. Resentment festers within the family.

The Reflection

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OP reflects on the incident, questioning how their MIL could have been so thoughtless. They consider whether or not to confront the in-laws about the situation and its repercussions.

The Decision

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The OP decides to have a conversation with their in-laws about their actions. They hope to express their frustration and disappointment, aiming to find a resolution and prevent future incidents.

The Consequences

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OP and their family grapple with the consequences of the MIL’s selfish decision. They question whether they can trust the in-laws in the future and consider how this will impact their relationship.

The Recovery

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The family slowly recovers from the illness, but the emotional wounds run deep. OP works to rebuild trust with the in-laws, though the process is challenging.

The Turning Point

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OP receives an apology from the in-laws, admitting their mistake and expressing regret. While still hurt, OP decides to work towards forgiveness and healing. The in-laws vow to be more transparent with the family in the future, working to strengthen their relationships and prevent further incidents.

The Road to Forgiveness

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The OP and their family work towards forgiving the in-laws, understanding that everyone makes mistakes. They begin to rebuild trust, though the process is slow and requires patience.

Was The OP’s Behavior Appropriate?

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The readers in the online forum had a lot of mixed views of the matter. Here are some of their responses:

Forum Responded

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One reader said, “I think this could be a sign that you need to avoid visiting your in-laws for a few years.”

Different Perspective

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Another responder wrote: “For starters, never go visit them again. Seriously. They got you sick. KNOWINGLY. I seriously wonder if that’s a crime in some places.”

Another Viewpoint

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A different person states, “This is so rage-inducing. How self-centered can a person be?”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

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