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Dad Puts Son’s House up for Sale to Teach Him a Valuable Lesson, but the Ensuing Chain of Events Is More Than He Aimed For.

The Original Poster (OP) grapples with his son’s disrespectful actions, leading to OP’s decision to sell the house where the son resides. However, the repercussions of this decision create controversy leaving us hanging to learn the ultimate consequences.

A Second Home for Family Bonding

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OP and his wife purchased a house in Pennsylvania as a second home to support their son, who decided to stay in the area after attending college there. The couple lives in New Jersey, and both commute to Manhattan for work. The system has worked well for several years, with the parents covering taxes and maintenance while the son manages his own utilities and groceries.

Love Enters the Picture

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During this time, the son meets a girl, and they eventually become serious about each other. OP and his wife meet her, and she seems like a suitable match for their son. The young couple announces their engagement, and she moves into the house with their son, which initially appears to be a happy development.

The Wedding Announcement

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Now, the family faces a significant event: the wedding. The parents host a barbeque at the Pennsylvania house, intending it to be a friendly gathering of both families. However, the pleasant atmosphere doesn’t last, and a sudden shift occurs, leading to a family crisis.

An Unexpected Departure

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The gathering takes a sharp turn when OP’s wife and daughter abruptly announce that they’re leaving for New Jersey. OP is left in the dark, confused about what has transpired. The reason for their departure remains a mystery until they reach their home.

The Shocking Revelation

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Once back in New Jersey, OP’s wife and daughter reveal the shocking news: the son and his fiancé, along with her family, don’t want their family at the wedding. The hurtful explanation offered is, “We’re not their kind of people.” Livid, OP contacts his son to understand the situation, only to be told that his son’s future in-laws believe OP’s family is not good enough and could potentially embarrass them at the wedding.

The Unanswered Questions

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OP finds himself lost in a storm of confusion and hurt, uncertain about what led to this painful family rift. He tries to find clues in past interactions, but nothing substantial comes to mind. He is left with more questions than answers.

A Week to Reflect

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After an agonizing week, OP decides to confront the situation directly. He drives back to the Pennsylvania house, hoping to speak with his son. On arrival, he finds the fiancé’s family staying with the couple at the house, signifying a significant escalation of the conflict.

Eviction Notice

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OP is asked to leave the house he owns by his son’s future in-laws, which triggers his decision to take a stand. He gives the occupants a 30-day notice to vacate, immediately stating, “You have 30 days to get out.” He informs his son about his decision to sell the house on the spot, leaving them to find new accommodations.

The House on Sale

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OP promptly lists the house for sale with a local realtor. The drastic step further intensifies the conflict, threatening the already strained relationship between the family and the future in-laws. It becomes a clear sign that OP is not willing to back down.

The Misunderstanding

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The son, who was under the impression that he owned the house, gets a call from the future in-laws about the impending sale. He contacts OP, confused about why his father is selling “his” house. This miscommunication adds another layer of complexity to the ongoing family feud.

Clearing the Air

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OP explains to his son that OP is the actual owner of the house, having paid for it and its taxes. His son, having lived there rent-free, is reminded of the conditions under which he was allowed to stay. OP reiterates his eviction notice, saying, “You have 30 days to get out, then I’ll get a lawyer and get you evicted.”

Tough Love or Too Much?

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OP questions whether his hard stance is too harsh. He struggles with the idea of turning his back on his son but is determined not to let the future in-laws control the situation. The intense internal conflict keeps the family on edge.

Was The Man’s Behavior Appropriate?

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The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter. Here are some of their responses:

Forum Responded

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One reader said, “I suggest you guys have a conversation to see why he is willing to cut you out for a new family. I mean, it seems like you guys were happy until this relationship started.”

Another Viewpoint

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Another responder wrote: “I want an update on this because it sounds nuts.”

A Different Perspective

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A different person states, “They all moved into your house?? That’s so bizarre. Tell them they’re not your kind of people, aka squatters.”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

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