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Aunt Wanted to Give Her Niece a Birthday Surprise, But the Exclusion of Another Family Member Causes Serious Fallout in the Family.

A young woman’s well-intended plan to take her niece, Kayla, to the Barbie movie spirals into a family feud when her other niece, Violet, is left out due to concerns about her autism. The escalating conflict tears the family apart. Even as Kayla enjoys her movie, the discord in the family lingers, setting the stage for questions and accusations that threaten to overshadow their bonds.

A Simple Birthday Plan

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OP, a 19-year-old woman, plans a belated birthday movie outing for her niece Kayla. The plan is to watch the latest Barbie movie as a treat for Kayla’s 11th birthday. OP coordinated the outing with Kayla’s father, OP’s older brother.

A Special Bond

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Over the past few years, OP and Kayla have bonded over traditionally feminine activities like getting pedicures, going shopping, and having tea parties. OP finds Kayla to be very mature and responsible for her age, making it easy for the two to get along.

An Additional Request

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Emma, OP’s sister, and mother of 5-year-old Violet, gets wind of these plans. She suggests that OP should also bring along Violet, who adores Barbie. Emma specifies that only Violet would join, not herself.

Contemplating the Complexity

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OP hesitates, considering the additional responsibility of bringing Violet along. She is not only younger but also autistic, which can demand extra attention. OP doesn’t share these concerns with Emma but declines the invitation for Violet.

Strains of Discontent

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Emma grows visibly frustrated with OP’s decision, calling it a “small ask.” She accuses OP of excluding Violet without reason and playing favorites. Emma claims that OP doesn’t have to face Violet’s disappointment of not joining them.

Heightened Accusations

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Emma continues the argument, upsetting OP considerably. She states that OP never offers to babysit Violet but always includes Kayla in activities. Despite OP’s pleas to drop the matter, Emma persists.

A Brother’s Intervention

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OP’s brother intervenes in the argument between his sisters. He suggests Emma should bring Violet to the movies and pay for their own tickets if she wants them to join. That way, Violet would have personal supervision, making the whole experience more manageable for OP.

Family Rift Erupts

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OP’s parents get involved in the heated discussion, siding with Emma. They insist that OP should have invited Violet along, as it would have made her very happy. This involvement causes a rift within the family.

The Birthday Movie Outing

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Despite the family conflict, OP only takes Kayla to see the Barbie movie as initially planned. Kayla thoroughly enjoys the experience. Meanwhile, OP is left feeling awful about the entire situation.

Questioning Motives

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OP starts questioning Emma’s motivations for not wanting to accompany Violet to the movies. Could Emma have used the situation to free up her own time as a form of babysitting? OP wonders if Emma knowingly triggered this family drama for her own convenience.

Doubts and Arguments

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OP’s doubts lead to further arguments within the family. Some agree with OP’s suspicions about Emma’s motives, while others defend Emma’s right to request Violet’s inclusion in the outing. The family rift deepens.

A Family in Turmoil

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The family remains in turmoil, with each member picking sides. The debate over OP’s decision and Emma’s intentions with Violet continues to divide the family. The birthday movie outing has spiraled into a major family rift.

The Lingering Rift

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Despite the eventful Barbie movie outing being over, its repercussions linger. The doubts about Emma’s motives and the argument over Violet’s inclusion have caused lasting strain within the family. The conflict remains unresolved.

Was The Aunt’s Behavior Appropriate?

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OP posts her story online for feedback and perspective. The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter. Here are some of their responses:

Forum Responds

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One reader said, “Barbie is not a kid’s movie. It’s rated PG-13, and the overall theme will go way over a 5-year-old’s head.”

Another Commenter Thinks

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Another responder wrote, “If you don’t feel like babysitting and are fine with chilling with an 11-year-old who can handle her own in a theater, that’s perfectly valid.”

A Third View on The Story

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A different person stated, “This was a treat for Kayla for her birthday. It was tacky of Emma to encroach on that bonding time for you and Kayla. It sounds like Emma wants a break from Violet and was trying to guilt you into giving her one.”

A Final Perspective on the Matter

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Another reader commented, “Bringing an autistic five-year-old to the movie theater for your older niece’s birthday doesn’t sound like much of a treat for her.”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

This story is inspired by a thread from an online forum.

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