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She Withheld Their Baby’s Gender From Her Indifferent Husband, but Things Took a Darker Turn When His Mother Stepped In.

A conflict unfolds when the husband repeatedly neglects his responsibilities, leaving the wife to brave the parenthood journey alone. The tension reaches a peak when the wife decides to keep the baby’s gender a secret from the husband, triggering a standoff that leaves both parties and their families in turmoil.

A New Beginning

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OP and her husband are ecstatic about expecting their first child. However, a shadow of discord is cast when the husband consistently prioritizes his hobbies over attending doctor’s appointments with his wife. His dismissive attitude towards these appointments, justified in his mind by the fact that he’s not the one carrying the child, initiates a rift between them.

A Brewing Storm

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The tension escalates as the husband misses the significant gender reveal appointment, choosing a casual meal with a friend over his wife’s important milestone. OP, although livid, decides to let it slide this time and continues with her mother for the appointment. The husband’s indifference is now more palpable than ever.

The Last Straw

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In a twist of events, OP decides to hold back the gender reveal results from her husband after he disregards the importance of the appointment. His casual text asking for the results is met with a firm refusal from OP. Their relationship now faces a real test.

The Fallout

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A heated argument ensues as the husband fumes over OP’s decision to keep the gender of their baby a secret. He accuses OP of being “spiteful and immature,” but she holds her ground, affirming, “He gets no results, period.” The line in the sand is drawn.

Enter the Family

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The husband, upset and cornered, shares the situation with his family. They pressurize OP to disclose the baby’s gender, claiming she’s playing mind games. However, OP remains steadfast, refusing to bow to the pressure.

A Surprising Turn

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OP is surprised by the attention her predicament is garnering. She’s overwhelmed by the number of comments and concerns people have shown. But her resolve remains undeterred.

The Unsuccessful Attempt

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In a desperate move, the husband tries to contact the doctor to learn about the baby’s gender. This blatant attempt to bypass OP’s decision triggers yet another argument. OP’s husband, however, remains unsuccessful as the doctor refuses to disclose any information.

The Unseen Ally

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A twist reveals that the husband’s mother was the one who attempted to contact the doctor on his behalf. This unexpected ally causes further strain between OP and her husband’s family. The plot thickens as more parties get involved in the conflict.

A Marriage on the Rocks

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OP and her husband’s relationship is now strained more than ever. His lack of empathy and understanding of the situation, coupled with his relentless attempts to know the baby’s gender, widens the gap. OP holds her ground, with a firm resolution to not disclose the baby’s gender until the birth.

The Silent Standoff

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Despite the family’s insistence and her husband’s fury, OP continues her silent rebellion. The husband is left fuming, but OP stands her ground, saying, “He gets no results til after the baby’s born.” The silent standoff continues, adding further tension.

A Question of Rights

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The husband claims he has the right to know the baby’s gender as the father. This claim, however, falls on deaf ears as OP maintains her stance. The question of rights adds another layer of complexity to the story.

The Accusations Fly

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The husband labels OP as ‘dramatic’ since she wasn’t alone for the appointment and had her mother for company. His insensitivity fuels OP’s resolve to maintain her stand. The accusations, however, do nothing to resolve the situation.

A Question of Morality

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The whole situation spirals into a moral dilemma for OP. She begins to question if her decision to withhold the baby’s gender from her husband was right or wrong. Despite her internal struggle, she repeats her stance to herself, “I was willing to die on this hill.”

The Final Standoff

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The story reaches its climax as the standoff between OP and her husband continues. The husband insists on his right as a father, while OP maintains her position of not revealing the baby’s gender until the birth. In her own words, she affirms, “He gets no results, period.”

Is The Woman’s Behavior Appropriate?

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The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter. Here are some of their responses:

Forum Responded

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One reader said, “This is going to be the dad that complains he has to “babysit” while his wife goes to the store to buy him food.”

Another Viewpoint

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Another responder wrote: “You need to seriously reconsider this relationship. He’s showing you that he and his friends are more important than you and the baby. He sees going to appointments with you as punishment, not as a chance to make sure you and the baby are healthy.”

A Different Perspective

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A different person states, “He’s already failing at being a dad. I can’t imagine he’s going to make a good partner to you in sharing the responsibilities that come with raising a child.”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

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