She Dreamed of Being at Her Father's Wedding, But a Unexpected Rule Meant She Wouldn’t Receive an Invitation.

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When the Original Poster (OP) learns she’s excluded from her father’s wedding due to a strict “no one under 18” rule just days before her 18th birthday, she’s devastated. However, her biting Facebook post on her subsequent birthday about the incident ignites a family uproar, putting her relationship with her father and stepmother, Anna, on the line.

The Father-Daughter Bond

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OP has always been close to her father, visiting him 3-4 times a week. Although she feels closer to her mother, her relationship with her dad remains strong. A few years ago, a new woman named Anna entered his life, and they began dating.

Anna’s Arrival

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Anna and OP get along well from the outset. When OP’s dad proposes to Anna, OP feels joyous, believing Anna would be a great stepmother. Their relationship seems promising.

Pre-Wedding Preparations

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A few weeks before the wedding, OP has already invested time and money into the celebration. She’s bought her dress, shoes, and other necessities, eagerly anticipating the big day.

A Sudden Announcement

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Out of the blue, OP’s dad and Anna request a sit-down talk with her. They’ve made a decision about their wedding: it will be child-free. The policy is strict. No one under 18 is allowed.

The Bitter Realization

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Despite her close bond with her dad, OP finds herself excluded due to her age. With her 18th birthday a mere two days post-wedding, she is in disbelief. Yet, Anna and her dad remain firm on their decision.

Missing The Celebration

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On the wedding day, OP is absent, a mere two days away from her 18th birthday. The celebration occurs without her, highlighting her painful exclusion. Her anticipated joy is replaced with feelings of rejection.

A Birthday Distraction

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To alleviate the pain, OP’s mother decides to take her on a birthday vacation. They spend quality time together, creating new memories. This serves as a bright spot amidst the recent tumultuous events.

Social Media Revelation

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On her 18th birthday, OP makes a Facebook post highlighting the irony of being excluded just days prior. She shares her feelings, highlighting the maturity she’s supposedly gained overnight. Her post spread like wildfire among family and friends.

The Family’s Reaction

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Family members express shock and dismay upon learning of the wedding’s exclusion policy. The reactions are strong, with many bashing Anna and the father for their decision.

The Retaliation

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Both Anna and the father respond to the public outrage. They fire off texts to OP, labeling her as “immature” and a “selfish brat.” Their words emphasize how they really felt about OP in their initial decision.

Friends Weigh In

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As news spreads, OP’s friends begin discussing the situation. Some believe that she was justified in her actions, while others feel she should’ve stayed silent. Their opinions are divided, making OP reflect on her actions.

Reflecting on Decisions

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OP grapples with the feedback from her friends and family. The weight of the situation begins to press on her, with conflicting emotions clouding her judgment. She’s torn between defending her stance and seeking reconciliation.

The Strained Relationship

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OP’s relationship with her dad and Anna is now on shaky ground. The trust and bond that once existed have been marred by recent events.

Searching for Understanding

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As the days go on, OP tries to understand the reasons behind Anna and her father’s decision. Was it purely about age? Or were there deeper issues at play? She is left pondering.

To Move Forward or Stay Stagnant

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OP is at a crossroads. She can either cling to her feelings of rejection or try to understand and move forward. The story leaves readers pondering if they will ever forgive and forget.

Was Sharing Online That Her Father Excluded Her On His Wedding Day Appropriate?

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The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter.

Forum Responds

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One reader said, “They made a choice. If they believe it was the right choice, they should have no issue about it being publicly known.”

Another Commenter Thinks

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Another responder wrote: “She made that rule to keep you out. You now know where you stand in their marriage. You don’t. I’m so sorry.”

A Third View on The Story

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A different person states, “Banning the 17 years and 363-day-old daughter of the groom from a wedding because it’s child-free is a decision. A decision to exclude. Not just in their wedding but in their lives.”