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Man Agrees to Host His Ex College Sweetheart’s Wedding on His Property, but the Groom’s Bizarre Demand Would Have Him Questioning Everything.

When the Original Poster (OP) agrees to host his college sweetheart’s wedding at his house, little does he know it will spiral into an unexpected conflict. The climax unfolds as the groom-to-be learns about OP’s past relationship with his fiancee and insists on barring him from attending, which leads to a dramatic standoff.

A Wedding in the Making

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OP and Carla dated during college. They used to talk about planning their wedding on his family’s lovely property. This was due to the property’s privacy, open space, and stunning views. However, this idyllic setting soon harbors the seeds of conflict, given their past romantic history.

The History Unveiled

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OP’s wife was aware of his past with Carla and was unfazed by it. However, Rick, Carla’s fiancé, was kept in the dark about their history. Rick thought OP and Carla were just good friends but was completely unaware of their past intimacy. This secrecy would soon unravel, leading to a dramatic turn of events.

The Unfortunate Revelation

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Rick discovered OP and Carla’s past in an unseemly manner, learning from a mutual friend that they had dated. The news was compounded by a rumor that Carla confessed she still loved OP years after they broke up. This revelation caused a rift, with Rick feeling betrayed by Carla’s omission.

Silence and Counseling

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The aftermath of the revelation saw Carla and Rick attending couples counseling, with OP being kept at a distance. After a month of silence, Carla reached out to OP, informing him that the wedding was still on. However, this news came with an unexpected request.

The Uninvited Host

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Rick, still hurting from the revelation, requested that OP not attend the wedding. OP, understanding Rick’s discomfort, acquiesced. Yet, the question of the wedding’s location led to a surprising twist – they still wished to hold it at OP’s house.

The Bizarre Request

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Despite his discomfort with OP’s presence, Rick expressed his desire to have the wedding at OP’s house. This left OP puzzled, as he reflected, “he doesn’t want the guy who dated his fiancée years ago at the wedding, but still wants the wedding at his house.” This odd request deepened the conflict.

The Homeless Weekend

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Carla and Rick’s request essentially meant that OP and his wife would have to vacate their home during the wedding. This request was met with refusal by OP, who saw it as not only risky but also illogical.

The Rejection

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OP voiced his refusal to Carla, highlighting the nonsensical nature of their request and the safety concerns it raised. He stood his ground, asserting that it was unreasonable to leave his home vulnerable for a wedding he was no longer welcome to.

A Plea for Understanding

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Despite OP’s rejection, Carla, Rick, and some of their mutual friends continued to press him to allow the wedding at his house. OP was accused of being petty, with his friends telling him, “It’s the least [he] can do after everything.” This only solidified OP’s resolve.

The Accusation

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The OP was accused of sabotaging Carla and Rick’s wedding. Rick seemed to believe that allowing the wedding at OP’s property was a form of atonement. This accusation, however, only perplexed and frustrated OP further.

The Defense

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OP defended himself against the accusations, reiterating the illogicality and the safety concerns of their request. He stated, “It just doesn’t make sense at all to have to leave our own place for a wedding we’re no longer welcome to and leave our home totally vulnerable.”

The Dilemma

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Caught between his friends’ accusations and his own principles, OP found himself in a moral dilemma. He questioned whether he was in the wrong, given the emotional weight of the situation. The question remained: was he the antagonist or just a man protecting his home?

The Confrontation

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OP confronted Rick about the accusations, explaining his perspective. He highlighted the paradox of their request, expecting him to vacate his house yet barring him from the ceremony. This confrontation, however, did not lead to the resolution OP had hoped for.

The Stalemate

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Despite OP’s efforts, Rick remained firm on his stance, believing OP owed them the use of his property. OP, in turn, maintained his refusal, stating, “We’re not going to simply leave our home to them for the weekend.” This deadlock deepened the existing tension among the friends.

The Final Stand

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In the end, OP stood by his decision to refuse the use of his property for the wedding. He reiterated, “It just doesn’t make sense… to have to leave our own place for a wedding we’re no longer welcome to.” Despite the accusations of sabotage and pettiness, OP prioritized the safety and integrity of his home over social pressure.

Was The Man’s Behavior Appropriate?

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The readers in the forum had a lot of mixed views on the matter. Here are some of their responses:

Forum Responded

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One reader said, “Do you typically host wedding receptions on your property? He can go pay for a venue if he’s going to act like that.”

Another Viewpoint

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Another responder wrote: “You don’t get to be uninvited from a wedding that is literally in your backyard.”

A Different Perspective

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A different person states, “No way in h*** would I allow myself to be run off my own property by an insecure man to use as he sees fit, even just for a day.”

What Do You Think?

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What are your thoughts on their actions?

What would you have done in this situation?

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